redfiona99

Long story short: Came home, found note on door, housemate has been into my room and tidied up without my knowledge. Despite knowing this is a massive over-reaction, I feel more than slightly violated.

Long story long:

There is a hole in my wall. It has been there since before I moved in. Housemate's parents, who are also my landlords, are coming up to fix it. I knew of this and was planning to tidy up. I had already done 7/10ths of my washing so that, once it was done, I could start in on the non-clothes portion of my mess.

Housemate has taken it upon himself to clean my room. He is a lot better at it than I am. If he'd asked my permission, he would have had it in a heartbeat. He has a sister, a mother and a girlfriend, I have no doubt he has seen as much women's underwear as I have. Also, all my gay porn is in German and in a box so it's not like he can find that.

It's just, he knows what I'm like about my privacy. Admittedly he doesn't know why, because I've never felt an overwhelming urge to tell him my boy cousin was a nosey sneak who couldn't keep his paws off anything of anyones and used to root through my room at random intervals, or his mother, who, when I used to live with them, used to grab things at random and throw them out. Being the kind person I am, I have kept my neuroses about people taking my stuff to myself (I am well aware where I get my hoarding behaviour from).

But, and this is the important thing, he has my phone number and knows I keep my phone switched on and with me at all times with the exception of 4-5pm on a Wednesday and 10-11 am on a Friday. So he could have called and I wouldn't be like this.

Also, I can't find my dirty washing bag, and he's opened the window that I don't know how to close. Cheesed off doesn't come close.

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There will be a music post, but it will be after Torchwood. And possibly some beer or chocolates.