redfiona99: (Thinking)
redfiona99 ([personal profile] redfiona99) wrote2003-06-15 12:03 am

Father's Day Related Angst

Does anyone know what the ettiquette is for father's day as relating to mother's boyfriends who fall into the large category of people who are not my Dad.

'Cause I don't know if I should get him a card or not. Because as far as I can see, he's not my Dad nor will he ever be among the people who suffer from acting as my stand-in Dad (i.e my Uncle), so why bother.

The other side of it being that he's a really nice guy and I don't want to upset him.

I'm hoping some reasonable compromise will appear to me while I'm making my Uncle's father's day card.

[identity profile] biorhythm.livejournal.com 2003-06-14 06:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm... maybe not a card (I can see how that would be awkward) but some smallish gift would be nice. Or even doing something for him like taking he and your mom out to dinner.